Sunday, October 14, 2007


Just catching up

I usually go out 1-3 times a week, I wind up talking with many people because I am very unique in my area of Atlantic County. I'm sure they're are a few other Cd's who may venture out but prefer to keep very low profiles and I wouldn't recommend anything else for them unless their lives were very secure in all aspects.



I find it very interesting that in my particular situation and one of the reasons I dress as Louise is due to the way people interact with me, where as Lou, it's an non interaction and the difference is demonstrative. To get to the topic, many people, usually women with confide in me some very personal information about relatives who may be gay or who at CD's or TG. This Friday night 10/12/07 a woman told me about lack of sex life with her husband, she was 62 so I assume her husband was no less that age and probably slightly older. I said women need to go on estrogen at her age and men have testosterone reduction at that age also and maybe he needs to be treated. The other suggestion I made was, if she feels sexual and he is non compliant that her age she has all the right to make her self happy anyway she feels fit. She hugged me and thanked me as if I was giving her affirmation and my blessing. What is interesting is that seems to be a common event when I'm Louise, but never as Lou.



I have to also say that this exact transformation has occurred with me son, we had a very augmentable relationship but since he met Louise he treats me much differently and we have a much more pleasant time together.



My question is, do I change or is it the way people see me that changes.

Monday, October 01, 2007

Vette Show in Ocean City, NJ


I rarely go out on Sundays as Louise, but my wife had gone on a cruse last week 09/19/07 so I was bored and figured I'd do some cruising too.

The first thing I like to do weekends is to race bike (usually 45 miles) with a group, I don't do well but I hang in. Then I came home and dressed up and decided to wear my camouflage mini dress (I wanted to blend) LOL.

The next thing I did was to go to the local restaurant my wife and I patronize every Sunday, the Waite staff love me, as Louise, and I can always see people staring or asking about me, I want to be noticed and feel if I'm not then I dressed to conservatively.

After my meal I headed to OC and found a parking spot fairly close to the boardwalk where I just pranced up to the boardwalk. I had my DSLR camera because I wanted to do some nice pictures, I walked a few blocks and noticed a young man, about 30, walk across the boardwalk in my direction who gave me a glance but I always expect that so didn't pay any attention to him. About a block or two later I hear a person say "do you mind if I talk with you" I turned and it was this young man, I said of course not and he replied "I love you and so does Jesus" well he didn't know me very well. By the time we got through walking about 20 blocks together he had told me a lot about himself and why he became "born again". He was a very nice person and if people don't know, Ocean City is a very Christian community, mostly Christian Science or other extreme groups who say they accept everyone unless they don't fit they're nitch.

I know as I walked by some of the groups of people who were sitting by the railing due to the long boring event I was receiving a lot of attention, I would hear some of the women laugh, I'm sure that 15-25 years ago they were a lot more attractive and slimmer, but possibly they were reacting to the way I looked in my mini and were reflecting on how they would have looked in it today and thought they would look comical.

I finally saw someone with another DSLR and figured I would ask if he would be kind enough to use my camera to take a couple of pictures of me. I must have really startled him because he almost stuttered and then took to shots without even considering the composition but at least I had something to prove my story. The picture does little to compliment me, my hair was wind blown and I was up there for about 2 1/2 hours and facing a very bright sun, I look much better in very dim lighting, if you get the drift.
Louise