As I've often stated, the reason I have risked everything in my life after discovering my "Alter Ego" as Louise, is the way people seem to be drawn to me. This is not a delusion, you can't make up the scenarios and experiences, at least I can't.
These are some experiences over the last couple weeks.
The Cat Scan
I had to have a CAT scan, most of the staff are now familiar with my wife and I, it seems as if we might be owners of some of the equipment there. After the scan I forgot to ask for a disc, sometimes they might burn one for you while doing the test, but I forgot to ask.
So I went back in about a week later dressed as Louise and as I expected the receptionist said I'll place the order and you can get it in 3-4 days, I said OK, but I have some things coming up next week so I'll be in later in the week. I didn't ask her to do anything special and accepted the condition, it's not a first time for me. She then said, wait, let me see what I can do and she went back to the area where they copy the files.
As I turned to take a seat, the was a couple there and the woman waved at me as if she knew me, I just can't remember most people. So I went over and sat next to her, she obviously knew me well and we were having a conversation. Then another woman walked in and said, Hi Louise, I just was at Millie's store and started talking with me too. A few minuets later the receptionist came out from the back and said, here it is all done for you.
Yes, I know it's a long story for just a simple experience, but I can assure you, Lou would still be waiting for that disc.
The Political Debate
The reason I had dressed that day was because the Chamber of Commerce was sponsoring a political debate at a country club, both Congressional candidates, the Sheriff and a few others know me as Louise and I just like to add spice to the mix, so I go as Louise, besides it makes me feel important or they think I'm NUTS, who cares.
I walked in and there were only a few people and no one I recognized, I sat in front of an older man (89 he told me later) who was speaking with a woman.The woman said, hi Louise so I turned to acknowledge her, she happened to be a Chamber staff member and she introduced me to the older gentleman. He polity said, I'm so fortunate to be surrounded by pretty ladies, of course Louise had to clue him in and he for a moment seemed caught off guard, he then says, I don't know what you are, but you are pretty.
The fact is, this guy was pretty sharp for his age, he heard and saw perfectly well without hearing aids or glasses and was "sharp as a tack", he was also a stanch Ocean City Conservative who was VERY vocal about his Republican party support. I try not to get into political party discussions other than point out what I like about each others beliefs. As we're talking, another lady comes over to me who works for the current Congressman and I get up to great her, she calls over to the Congressman, see I told you I knew Louise.
We chatted a few moments and when she left, the old man wanted to have a conversation with me, we started with, where from and then who we might know as mutual acquaintances, he seemed very comfortable with me and enjoyed meeting someone of my "lifestyle" it was a first for him and something I'm sure he thought he would never experience. It just goes to show that even someone as off beat as people might think I am gives people a chance to realize Cross-dressers might be more normal than expected.
The Garage Sales
Saturday morning there were a number of local garage sales. Since I stopped riding my bike (I hope temporarily) I thought I'd check them out.
The first one I went to didn't have anything of interest and as I was leaving, the lady said, I like the boots. Well of course I have to reply, I said everything I'm wearing is woman's and I even showed her my nails. She asked, what's that all about, I said I'll show you a picture, she said, OMG, I've met you out before. We had a nice conversation and her husband said, please say Hi next time you see us.
I went to two more sales, the woman running the second sale knew me and at the last one, a couple who used to be customers of mine were looking around and had a conversation with me about Louise too.
For me, if it weren't for Louise, Lou would have no life and that possibly answers why I titled my blog, LIFE OF LOUISE
My wife and I help other CD's with makeup, photography and escorting them out if needed. Contact me at CuteLouise1@aol.com To start at the beginning of my postings, please scroll down a little till you see the dates on the right side and click at the first (top) date. Thank you
1 comment:
Louise,
This was an excellent post. From my perspective you being who you are is great for other more closeted CDs. You have single handedly reached out to dozens if not hundreds of people to show that CDs are simply people in most ways just like everyone else.
From your perspective it would seem that the results are even more positive. Reading between the lines it would seem that Lou is just another older, retired, local area resident. As Louise you show strength, courage, uniqueness, interest and a sort of spiritual power that spreads to all you encounter.
Even people like me need to have heroes (heroines) that we can look up to and, to quote the song "Wind Beneath my Wings" I can only say "Did you ever know that you're my hero...cause you are the wind beneath my wings".
Pat
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