I think that will be my epithet on my tombstone, I must admit some of the things people tell or say to me cause me to wonder WTF is going on with them.
Here's a recent example.
Yesterday I happened to have a short conversation with my neighbor, very nice couple who adopted 2 kids, very upstanding and Religious, I'm sure they usually teach their kids to be respectful and have good morals and ethics, BUT.
I mentioned something I was apprehensive about commenting on (since they also know me as Louise) because people automatically can consider me a Deviant and not accept my observations or opinions. The comment was (as polity as I could state) "If you notice your bushes on the side turning brown, it's because my wife and I have accidently seen your son's occasionally peeing on them " (6-7 times).
He responded with "Oh yeah, we have a dog gate up by the bathroom and it's inconvenient for both of our son's to pee in the bathroom at the same time when we're in a hurry, so I told them to pee outside but to be discrete". I have to think WTF.