Sunday at a friends

The next day we were invited to my wife's friends home for their traditional Sunday BBQ. The first time I went I shared my "other side" with two lady friends, they were disappointed I didn't come en-fem but I usually have a busy day Saturdays it's just to much effort for Sunday.

It was getting late and another couple showed up who travel from Mt Holly, NJ about 50- to 60 miles away, we didn't have a chance to interact with them because they were sitting at another table (there were about 15 people at the BBQ) as we were leaving we were saying good night and I regreated not being able to talk with them. The wife asked where we were from and how we new the hosts, I mentioned then know me and my "Twin Sister" the lady questioned what my twin sister looked like and I JUST had to share my "Louise" picture, she said "OMG we met you at Bubba Macks about 20 years ago" she went on saying we were amazed by your looks and how everyone endeared you. 

I've mentioned to my wife many times some of the interesting encounters I have when out but without being with me it's had to believe, so this one she witnessed personally.   

Saturday night 9/11/2021

 Saturdays are a typical day and night I go out, I've had to limit the radius that I travel now due to people buying me Adult beverages, I try to stay at a 3 limit but sometimes a drink is poured before I have a chance to pass it off.

This Saturday I went to local restaurant lounge where the owner is very conservative (as I am) but polite towards me. I found a seat between two couples and the lady to my left started a conversation, we only talked about 2 minutes before the lady on the other side of a gentleman next to me recognize the lady to my left was her cousin and wanted to talk with her, I offered to swap seats so they could sit together and wound up next to a guy (about late 50's) who looked like he worked-out and was, possibly a carpenter or other trade person. I asked what he was eating because it looked good and he took the menu and looked it up for me, which I thought was very considerate. His main course came and I mentioned the food was always great there and I take my wife a few times a year. He sort of  questioned my statement by saying "Wife" I said yes and he said "well I guess at the stage of our country with guys marring guys women do the same" I said well I am a "guy" he looked and said I had no idea, I mentioned I considered it a compliment although I never considered myself passable, he disagreed he was convinced I was a female.