I've been out up to 5 times in one week as Louise over the last 30 days or so. I just wanted to catch up on some of the more notable moments.
I had an issue with something I need help from a State agency a few months ago, I went to the local office as Louise to discuss the problem. The person I spoke with was very accommodating and took personal care of the problem. A few weeks ago as I was walking into one of the Lounges I frequent my phone rang, it was hi, he told me where her was and that his wife and some other family members wanted to meet me. I drove over (about 5 minutes away) to the other place. They were out back. As I was walking towards them I notice a lady I had met last year and took a moment to say hello. I then walked over to the side where the State person was. As I came up to them his wife said in a some what direct manner "It's not right", you look 50 times better than me, I want you to stop calling my husband. Of course she was kidding with me. Her husband could only say "Didn't I tell you" about 15 times. It's really nice to know people who are so open minded.
A few days later I went to a restaurant I've been to over the last 3-4 years, I've seen the owner a number of times be we never even acknowledged each other, but this time he was working as the host. I felt I needed to at least introduce myself (some people are afraid to make first contact with someone different). I've been back at least twice and now he makes a point of addressing me as Ms Louise (another convert) I'm proud of him>
There was a Food show at Bally's Casino and the people who coordinate the show offered me comp tickets. My wife was supposed to go with me but she wanted to work in her store so he volunteered her girl friend. I went as Louise of course. I was really surprised and disappointed, even the people I talked with never made mention that I was a Cross Dresser, maybe people are more interested in food and wine, or just more accepting. I did see a friend of mine who is a TS, I called out to her and she acknowledged me but would not come over to talk, she was with a woman, maybe her friend was not aware of her sex status.
This past Sunday I went with my wife to an outdoor weekly event at Sweet water Casino. The main restaurant had burned down about a year ago but the had an outdoor bar and bar food.
My wife and her GF walked in before me and I found a parking place. As I was walking through the parking lot and near the entrance there were about 15 motorcycles parked. As I entered the park bench area it was pretty obvious that this was a "Red neck zone", I never saw so much ink. I tried not to make any eye contact but it was apparent all eye's were on me. As I reached my wife, as someone would reach out for a life preserver, she said I think we're leaving. She said everyone was staring, I was wearing shorts and due to all my cycling my thighs are very defined. After about 30-45 minuets we were becoming more comfortable, no one has attracted me. I went up to the bar where a person offered me a drink and simultaneously someone came over and said I'd like to talk with you when your done, come to our table. I was pleasantly surprised they were very polite, no rude comments other than the one person kept saying I don't care what you have between your legs, your pretty and I'd do you. After awhile a few other people made contact, but one was sort of interesting and surprised me, not that I haven't had people voluntarily mention someone in their life who had some issue. This woman said I need to ask you a question, my son is 17, I don't know if he masturbates, but he needs to wear my bathing suit, he has Ashburgs disease and has trouble with understanding some things. Knowing from my experiences I said I doubt he'll ever out grow the clothing fetish, but I would try to explain simply that wearing clothes that are for the opposite sex could be like wearing your underwear in public. I felt trying to keep it simplified would be less confusing for him, I hope it works out, she was really nice even if she looked tougher than me when I'm in Lou mode. I gave him my signature mark on his forehead.
I had an issue with something I need help from a State agency a few months ago, I went to the local office as Louise to discuss the problem. The person I spoke with was very accommodating and took personal care of the problem. A few weeks ago as I was walking into one of the Lounges I frequent my phone rang, it was hi, he told me where her was and that his wife and some other family members wanted to meet me. I drove over (about 5 minutes away) to the other place. They were out back. As I was walking towards them I notice a lady I had met last year and took a moment to say hello. I then walked over to the side where the State person was. As I came up to them his wife said in a some what direct manner "It's not right", you look 50 times better than me, I want you to stop calling my husband. Of course she was kidding with me. Her husband could only say "Didn't I tell you" about 15 times. It's really nice to know people who are so open minded.
A few days later I went to a restaurant I've been to over the last 3-4 years, I've seen the owner a number of times be we never even acknowledged each other, but this time he was working as the host. I felt I needed to at least introduce myself (some people are afraid to make first contact with someone different). I've been back at least twice and now he makes a point of addressing me as Ms Louise (another convert) I'm proud of him>
There was a Food show at Bally's Casino and the people who coordinate the show offered me comp tickets. My wife was supposed to go with me but she wanted to work in her store so he volunteered her girl friend. I went as Louise of course. I was really surprised and disappointed, even the people I talked with never made mention that I was a Cross Dresser, maybe people are more interested in food and wine, or just more accepting. I did see a friend of mine who is a TS, I called out to her and she acknowledged me but would not come over to talk, she was with a woman, maybe her friend was not aware of her sex status.
This past Sunday I went with my wife to an outdoor weekly event at Sweet water Casino. The main restaurant had burned down about a year ago but the had an outdoor bar and bar food.
My wife and her GF walked in before me and I found a parking place. As I was walking through the parking lot and near the entrance there were about 15 motorcycles parked. As I entered the park bench area it was pretty obvious that this was a "Red neck zone", I never saw so much ink. I tried not to make any eye contact but it was apparent all eye's were on me. As I reached my wife, as someone would reach out for a life preserver, she said I think we're leaving. She said everyone was staring, I was wearing shorts and due to all my cycling my thighs are very defined. After about 30-45 minuets we were becoming more comfortable, no one has attracted me. I went up to the bar where a person offered me a drink and simultaneously someone came over and said I'd like to talk with you when your done, come to our table. I was pleasantly surprised they were very polite, no rude comments other than the one person kept saying I don't care what you have between your legs, your pretty and I'd do you. After awhile a few other people made contact, but one was sort of interesting and surprised me, not that I haven't had people voluntarily mention someone in their life who had some issue. This woman said I need to ask you a question, my son is 17, I don't know if he masturbates, but he needs to wear my bathing suit, he has Ashburgs disease and has trouble with understanding some things. Knowing from my experiences I said I doubt he'll ever out grow the clothing fetish, but I would try to explain simply that wearing clothes that are for the opposite sex could be like wearing your underwear in public. I felt trying to keep it simplified would be less confusing for him, I hope it works out, she was really nice even if she looked tougher than me when I'm in Lou mode. I gave him my signature mark on his forehead.
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Louise you observed: "I was really surprised and disappointed, even the people I talked with never made mention that I was a Cross Dresser, maybe people are more interested in food and wine, or just more accepting."
You are beautiful. Even I as a fellow TG if I saw you in a restaurant would not stop to think "is that a man" you present well as a woman. passing is not even an issue until you present as a CD rather than a woman, and make it an issue..which God Bless you I give you credit for doing. My own experience mirrors yours. If I dress down I get accepted everywhere. My wife and I like going out as two gal friends.
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